Thanks for tuning in luvz! let’s talk about somethinhg that’s not widely discussed on the usual….
How do you react when a family member Crosses you?
See the one thing I learned about family is that they are the people who can hurt you the most. Sometimes they are clueless about the hurt they cause, but mostly they’ll know and just won’t care. This leaves the members of the family who take bond to the heart, left in a vulnerable space.
We tend to spaz out more when it’s our family that betray us because they’re apart of us, so yeeees it hurts the most. I’m here to say stop letting that shit happen!
Don’t let anyone, not even your family get you out of character. People hurt you and hide their guilt with excuses and most of all, the blame game. They hurt but don’t want to deal with the backlash or concequences for what they’ve done. But the way we act when they’re confronted is what changes then and constantly digs at their soul in the end.
LOOK ultimately we can’t control our emotions. So try remember my advice and insight when dealing with these situations. You are there beginning to charge, even in the ones around you…!-Donnie Sharrell